Showing posts with label Week 1. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Week 1. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Famous Last Words: Week 1

I'm glad (and a little proud of myself, but not very, since I feel it was necessary) that I decided to get ahead in this class before the semester officially started. My goal was to be an entire week ahead (finish Tuesday's assignment on Tuesday before school, weekend stuff before MLK Day, etc.), and I fell just short of that. I finished the weekend assignments today (Tuesday), but since we had no assignments for Monday, I think I should be able to "meet" my goal be the time the day is over.

One of the reasons I decided to get ahead is that I'm a little worried about this semester. (Although, thinking back, I think I get stressed before every semester starts. It takes me a while to "get in the groove," figure out my schedule, and realize that I can do the workload.) I still don't have an idea for my capstone (where we'll be writing a 20,000 word novella), and wedding plans are forcing themselves into my schedule, no matter how many times I tell them that the wedding is more than a year away.
(*wedding ring* Weddings are expensive. Meme courtesy of Post Memes)


I feel like I need to get ahead of the game to stay on top of the game, so that's my plan. I'm enjoying the assignments so far, since most of them involve writing our opinions. I also love writing stories, as long as I have an idea, and the assignments for this class look like they're going to spark many ideas. I'm happy with the short story I wrote, If the Boot Fits. It was a helpful way to get back into the storytelling groove, which is something I really need to do for my capstone. We haven't done much reading for this class yet, but I'm looking forward to investigating the "untold" stories of Mary that Laura recommended to me. 

Learning Challenges: my thoughts

I'm excited about the learning challenges; they all seem like fun ways to learn that would be a nice "break" from regular school work.

Health/Happiness is of particular interest to me because I love to learn about physical health any way I can--reading fitness magazines, working out regularly, taking classes. My minor is Health and Exercise Science, and I always enjoy learning new tips or facts that teach us how our body works in relation to our health and happiness. After watching The Amazing Effects of Gratitude and reading the idea for the "Happiness Jar," I want to merge the two ideas and implement them in my life. I'll either write a journal or a blog post (or both) and write one thing I'm thankful for and one thing that made me happy each day. It'll be nice to see all the positive things adding up!

I also love that "R" is reading! I've been an avid reader since I was little, so talking about books and reading are some of my favorite things. When I have spare time, I usually use it to read more. So that topic won't really be a challenge for me... but I like it.
(Library meme from Learning by Heart site)

P.S.- Does anyone know if OU will rent out The Great Reading Room for weddings...? *insert goofy smiley but also serious emojee here*


One thing that could be a challenge for me is empathy. I've never been an emotional person, and when other people get upset for a reason I don't understand, I have trouble sympathizing with them. (Sometimes my family refers to me as Sheldon.) I know I don't always give peoples' feelings the respect they deserve, so I want to do some of the empathy challenges as well.

Monday, January 18, 2016

Growth Mindset: My Thoughts

("I love a challenge" meme from Laura's Growth Mindset Memes blog)

I'd never heard of the Growth Mindset or Carol Dweck before this assignment. I was really pleased with the ideas she presented, though, especially when I thought about my little sister.

Ella is brilliant, but she's also a little immature, and oftentimes when she's presented with a task she's unable to complete, she gets really frustrated and gives up or wants someone else to do the work for her. She wants to get 100% on all her school papers, and if she misses one, she's disappointed in herself. At the same time, she's a perfectionist, and can be very independent. I think she would thrive under a growth mindset atmosphere.

I really appreciate and agree with the idea of praising students for effort and improvement, rather than a simple score or correct answers that came easily.

I can see how I would benefit from the growth mindset. Sometimes, I have a tendency to stray away from activities I find difficult (like math) and gravitate heavily toward things I know I'm good at (like writing or art). I have a feeling this is something most people do, though, since it's generally not enjoyable to do something you're not good at. That is, unless your mindset is learning and growth, rather than immediate achievement. Our society has a tendency to gravitate toward anything that gives us immediate gratification anyway, rather than something we have to work and wait for. The growth mindset encourages improvement and patience, which are attributes we could all use more of.

I'm really interested in learning more about the Growth Mindset and applying it to my learning this semester. I want to strive to challenge myself rather than stay in my comfort zone of "easy."

Storybook Favorites



Mermaids: An Eternal World of Waters I’ve always loved the idea of mermaids, and stories revolving around them. I’ve been wanting to read Hans Christian Anderson’s version of The Little Mermaid for a while (since I know it’s not the same as Disney’s), and I liked that her storybook embellished the stories a little more. I’m not familiar with the stories (other than The Little Mermaid), but the storybook made me want to read them. I also liked the idea to use a secondary character to unfold the story of the mermaids, which many of the storybooks did.


Creek Stories: I like the simple layout and the fact that Cameron told the stories from the characters' perspective. That's one major difference in old folktales and novels today; folktales are typically more distant from the characters' feelings, whereas now, authors put us inside the characters' heads—and I think people like that more, and it's more captivating. However, I wasn’t sure what the storybook would be about before I clicked on it. I thought it might be something akin to “fireside stories,” but since most folktales are something along the line of a “fireside story” or legend, that still didn’t give me much information.


LSD in a Yellow Submarine: I love the idea of incorporating a modern day theme (The Beatles) with the ancient folktales. I especially like this idea because I don't always enjoy reading ancient stories if I don’t like the setting, but putting them in a funky setting like this makes it more enjoyable to read. The layout also matched the stories really well, with the colorful backgrounds and photos.


The "Bad" Guys of the Bible: Their Side of the Story: I love anything that has to do with the Bible. I believe The Bible is Truth, but I also love any side-stories people tell from its history. These re-tellings of "the villains'" sides of the story are entertaining in themselves, but I also like the script-style layout of the blog, and I think that adds even more humor to it.

Friday, January 15, 2016

Overview of Untextbook: my reading choices

So many stories!

For my first reading, Week 2, I've chosen Bible Women. I've been reading the Bible since I was little, so the stories are familiar to me, but I'm interested to see them told as "stories," rather than straight from the Bible. I've always had a particular interest in the women's stories, because these women played vital roles in the life of Christ and his history! Like, Mary... can you imagine going through that? I've also wanted (for a while now), to write a historical fiction novel about Mary, from her perspective.


Other than that, these topics sounded interesting to me:

Alice's Looking Glass: Who isn't fascinated with Alice in Wonderland? I've read that story, but I haven't had the change to read Through the Looking Glass, though I've wanted to. I love how whimsical and ridiculous it all is.

Brer Rabbit I/II: When I was about six, and my family went to Disney World, one of mine and my dad's favorite rides was Splash Mountain. In fact, it's still one of our favorites. This ride is based on the story of Brer rabbit, so I think it'd be fun to learn about the story more in-depth.

Celtic Fairy Tales: Way, way back, my ancestors on my dad's side are Scottish, or Irish, or both; I don't remember exactly. But I've always loved Irish culture and wanted to learn more about it, and I also love fairy tales. I've never really read anything from this genre, so I'm excited!

Grim (Ashliman): I love classic fairy tales and making them into something new (like Once Upon a Time). I know the popular stories, and I have the Brother's Grimm book of Fairy Tales on my shelf, but I want to read some of the lesser-known titles and possibly recreate something from them.


Thursday, January 14, 2016

Introduction to an "ingaged" girl



As you may have read in my “Favorite Place” post, my boyfriend and I went on a trip to Disney World over the break. On our third night, he proposed, and since then, my life has been a whirlwind of “You’re engaged!”

On our way home, we stayed with my Aunt Debbie and Uncle Tim, who live in a big house in the woods in Arkansas. Debbie is one of the sweetest people I know, and after giving her a “thank you” gift for letting us stay with her, she brought out a big white box. “I was going to wait until later to show you this, but… I changed my mind!” she said. Smiling, she set the box on the table in front of us, revealing a cake with a photo of me and Josh (the one we’d posted on Facebook right after we got engaged) on the top! I’d never eaten a cake with my face on it before, so I thought it was pretty exciting—and incredibly sweet. No pun intended.
(Our cake, courtesy of Debbie Howard—she had it made the morning after she heard the news!)

When we got home, my dad and step mom had prepared a special dinner, complete with “engaged” themed sugar cookies from our neighbor, and popcorn with a sign that said, “He popped the question!” My seven-year-old sister made a poster with the words, “To the ingaged two: Have an ingaged welcome!” which doesn’t make a whole lot of sense grammatically, but was incredibly adorable. On the poster, she had drawn a picture of one monkey proposing to another monkey. (I don’t know why she decided to depict us as monkeys.)
(Ella's poster, which she hurried to finish before we arrived)
(Our neighbor Brooke's cookies; she's super talented!) 


On top of that, my mom has been calling and emailing with different venue ideas and requests to schedule appointments to visit places. On Saturday, we’re going to a bridal show in Tulsa. In short, I’m really excited about the engagement (mostly because I love Josh and I can’t wait to be married to him), but it appears my family is…even more excited. I guess it shows how much they love both of us, and I’m thankful for that.

Update: The initial excitement and flurry of activity has ebbed somewhat, replaced by the chaos and routine of school and my family focusing on their own lives. I miss the feeling, but I can't say I'm not happy things have quieted down a bit. And I do like my routine.

Despite the fact that things have settled down, though, I now have a baker (Amy Cakes!), a gelato/espresso bar (Il Dolce), and a DRESS picked out! I'll share a picture of the back, because I think that's safe, and it's not like my fiance is ever going to see this anyway...at least, now he's definitely not. (By the way, Megan at Silhouette Bridal is the best! She's so sweet and accommodating and her shop is wonderful.)

(My wedding dress! That sounds so weird.)

Besides being engaged, I’ve been trying to focus on my “normal life.” So, as I push aside fleeting thoughts about cakes and dress ideas, I’m in the process of moving out of my parents’ house and into a house closer to campus with my best friend, Kessa. Kessa’s a dance major, and we’ve been best friends since we met in Kindergarten at Flower Mound elementary school. We both love dorky things like reading, The Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, and… food—which is not so dorky. 
(Me and Kessa at our senior prom)

Update: I'm loving my new house, and living with my best friend! (And no, we still haven't become un-best friends because we live together.) Cooking for myself has been a blast, and I'm glad to have the practice. It's also great to live so close to campus, whereas before, I had to drive across town when I was done with class. I also think living with my two roommates instead of my family has given me the chance to focus more on school, because we're all doing school! (Instead of me holing up in my room while my family was watching a movie or something.)

   (Pot roast! MY first time using a CrockPot.                             (Mediterranean tilapia)
     Although I can't take credit for cooking 
     the meat; my grandma did that.  :p)
  (More tilapia, with mushrooms and veggies)     (This is actually the breakfast casserole and                                                                            sweet potato I made for Josh on Valentine's Day...
                                                                        it took an embarrassingly long amount of time to cook.)
(Oh look, more sweet potato.) 

On top of that, I’m working to “up my game” at my job, since we have a new owner and I’m having to learn new marketing skills. I’m the administrator at a CrossFit gym, and I introduce new clients, post the workouts, and do other tasks that none of the coaches need or want to do. I also love working out there.

Update: We just moved to our new location on Wellsite Drive, and we are officially CrossFit 405 South! It's been a lot of fun meeting the coaches from the other gym and adjusting to Aaron's programming. I also registered for The Open this year (first time!), and I'm competing in Bricktown Throwdown (team CrossFit competition) in May! I'm not much of a "competitor," so this is out of my "I really wanna do this" zone, but I am excited! The people in our gym are really fantastic and supportive.

(Me deadlifting at 405 South, taken by Ryan Pratt, coach)
So that's me, for now! My main focuses in life are Jesus, my family, and exercising (besides school), but as you can see, right now my engagement is clouding a lot of it. And I think I'm pretty much okay with that. I'm a professional writing major (less than a year to go!) and I'm excited about knocking out this semester! 

Week 1 Storytelling: If the boot fits

If the Boot Fits


In a small town in north Texas, Katie Wethermock lived in a tiny blue house with her sturdy grandmother and their border terrier, Jack. Next to their faded blue house, a three-stalled barn sat half-sunken into the dry, cracked soil. Every morning, when the sun was still hiding behind a faraway hill, Katie tossed aside her quilt, slid her toes into dust-covered riding boots, and made her way sleepily out to the barn.

One morning, as Katie slid open the wooden door to feed the horses, the familiar squeal of rusty metal grated in her ears.

Why does that have to be the first thing I hear every morning? Katie wondered, wishing for the millionth time that they had the money to replace the rusty hinges.

In the first stall, Whitaker, an old dapple grey gelding, snorted his friendly greeting. Next to him, Lula, a Palomino mare, shook her head in welcome.

“Of course you all are happy,” Katie grumbled. “We spend all our money taking care of you, and you don’t realize how poor we are.” Then Katie rubbed her eyes and switched on the flickering light above the rafters. Moose, a dark bay yearling who already stood as tall as Whitaker, whinnied in delight.

“And you’re the trouble,” she said, shoving his nose aside when he nestled her shoulder. “Trotting down the road out of nowhere, all scraggly and scrawny…of course we couldn’t turn you away.” She plunged a large plastic scoop into a barrel of oats and dumped it into his bucket with a loud clatter. “But three horses is a lot to feed.”

That afternoon at school, Katie noticed Olivia Wince’s ballet flats—shining, expensive, and one-hundred-percent Olivia’s. Olivia’s mother was always spending money on her—new dresses, new shoes, fun parties.

“I love your shoes, Olivia,” Katie said, unable to take her eyes off her friends sparkling gold toes.

“Really?” Olivia asked. “If you want… you can have them.”

Katie’s eyes widened. “Really? But what would you wear all day?”

“I’ll wear your boots!” Olivia said. “Mother never lets me play in the mud with the other children, or even walk along the river because she says I’ll get my clothes dirty! But with those boots, I could go anywhere I want!”

And so, Katie and Olivia traded shoes. Olivia skipped around the edge of the playground, where the ground was dustiest, and Katie sat staring at her new, shiny shoes. They pinched her pinky toes, but she didn’t care—she finally had something new for herself.

On her way home, Katie walked slowly along the gravel road, careful not to let any dust mar her new shoes. It took her twice as long to get home, and by the time she opened her front door, she’d missed her afternoon baking session with Grandma.

Later, she went to the barn to work with Moose, but the horse wouldn’t let her anywhere near him because the shimmer at her feet made him skittish. With a sigh, Katie walked back to the house and sat on the couch, where she tapped her toes together, watching the reflection of the overhead light glimmer on her toe.

“I could paint,” Katie thought, for she loved to paint—pictures of her horses, of her grandmother, of the sunset. But then she realized she might splatter brown or green on the perfect gold shoes, and they’d be ruined.

“Grandma, do you need help with dinner?” she asked hopefully.

Her grandmother gazed at Katie from her station at the stove. “Oh no, honey, you might splatter grease on those pretty shoes of yours! I got it.”

Katie sighed, and she didn’t leave the house the rest of the night.

The next day, she slipped her toes into the gold ballet flats, wincing when the sore skin of her pinky toes hit the end of the shoe. It was five-o-clock, even earlier than she woke to feed the horses. She walked down the lane, past Gower’s pond, and onto a paved street filled with towering houses. Spotting a wide house with pink bricks, Katie marched up the front steps, knocked on the door, and waited.

The door opened slowly, silently. “Hello?” A tired-looking man in leather house shoes poked his head out the door.

“I need to see Olivia,” Katie said. Moments later, her friend appeared at the door, rubbing her eyes. Katie bent down and yanked the ballet flats off her feet. “Here!” she said. “You can keep them. They’re pretty and all, but… I can’t paint, I can’t cook, I can’t even feed my horses!” And those are the things I love most, she realizedbut she didn’t want Olivia to know that her favorite things were so dirty.

Olivia’s tight, sleepy face melted in relief. “Oh, thank goodness!” she said. “Here!” She reached behind the door and appeared with Katie’s old, dust-covered boots in hand. “Mother wouldn’t let me go to afternoon tea! And I wanted to go dress shopping, but she said they wouldn’t let me in the stores! I’m sorry, Katie, but… I guess these just aren’t the shoes for me.”

Katie took her boots back from her fried. She slipped her right toe into the boot, then her left. She walked home, faster than she had on her way to Olivia’s, for her toes didn’t hurt quite so bad this time. She walked to the barn, where she paused before shoving aside the door, letting the squeal of its hinges ring inside her ears. She smiled. As she entered, Moose raised his head and whinnied his welcome.

“I know!” Katie said, gazing down at her old boots and wiggling her toes. “Aren’t they just the prettiest things?”



Author's Note: My story was inspired by Aesop’s fable, The Raven and a Swan. In this story, a raven is jealous of the swan’s beautiful white feathers, so he decides to live in the marsh and eat and act as the swan does. This ultimately leads to the raven starving to death because he can’t live off of the same things the swan eats. The moral of the story is, “A change of habits will not alter nature.” So I took this theme and told a story about dissatisfaction with one’s own life, and then the realization that we sometimes already have the thing that suits us best. Wearing pretty new shoes did not change Katie's desire to be with her horses, or paint, or cook.

(illustration from original story, by Milo Winter)

Bibliography: The Raven and a Swan, anonymous, copyright 1919 from Aesop’s Fables. http://www.gutenberg.org/files/19994/19994-h/19994-h.htm

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

My Favorite Place: (fake) Canada

Last week, my boyfriend Josh took me on a trip to Disney World for Christmas. We both went to Disney two years ago with my whole family, and have been dying to go back ever since. I've always loved Epcot, because you feel like you're in a completely different country (for the most part) without ever leaving Florida. This trip, though, I found a whole new reason to love Epcot, specifically Canada. 

On our third night, as we were on our way to dinner at Le Celier, Josh stopped me on the bridge next to the little garden (featured below), and said, "This trip...wasn't your real Christmas present. The reason I brought you here was because of this..." and then he got down on one knee and asked, "Will you marry me?" And of course, I said 'yes.' 


The garden in Canada at Disney's Epcot
taken by Michael Gray, May 2008

So even though I've never been partial to Canada, I'm always going to remember this spot as the place my best friend asked me to be his wife—his best friend foreverand for that reason, I'm always going to consider this little garden in fake Canada one of my favorite places.


Josh and me right after he popped the question!
Taken by the lone dad standing across the sidewalk.

Josh crashed when we got back to the resort—turns out, it's pretty exhausting trying to coordinate a proposal when your girlfriend keeps asking, "Why do we have to get to our reservation so early?" and the fountain in France (where there would have been a photographer) is crowded with people, and you're trying to keep a ring box from falling out of your sock. Yes, I said sock. Apparently, a large square sticking out of your pocket is a bit suspicious. 

I, on the other hand, could not sleep that night. When I finally did doze off, I woke up at 3am, reached over to the nightstand, put the ring back on my finger, and fell asleep. 

We're back in Norman now, but those smiles are still stuck on our faces, and you can bet that ring hasn't left my finger. 


My ring that I couldn't stop staring at during dinner
Taken by me on my phone